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True Legacy Starts With Being A Good Parent


A true legacy encompasses more than just material wealth; it includes the values, wisdom and love that we pass on to our descendants.


"In 100 years, by 2123, we will all be buried alongside our relatives and friends. Strangers will inhabit the homes we fought so hard to build, owning everything we cherish today. Our descendants will scarcely remember us, if at all. How many of us know our grandfather’s father? After we pass, we might be remembered for a few more years, then we'll become just a portrait on someone’s bookshelf. Eventually, our history, photos, and deeds will fade into oblivion."


This reflection serves as a powerful reminder to re-evaluate our priorities, cherish moments that bring genuine happiness, and create lasting memories with those we love. In doing so, we ensure that our legacy is not just one of material success, but one of meaningful connections and shared joy.


The Temporary Nature Of Material Wealth

For leaders, this quote highlights the fleeting nature of material possessions. Many founders have worked tirelessly to build their businesses from the ground up, often sacrificing family time for financial success. However, in a century, the homes and possessions we fight so hard to acquire will belong to strangers.


This stark reminder emphasises that material success is temporary and often forgotten. While building a business empire is commendable, these achievements alone do not define a legacy.


The True Essence Of Legacy

A true legacy encompasses more than just material wealth; it includes the values, wisdom, and love we pass on to our descendants. Owners need to shift their focus from merely accumulating wealth to imparting lasting values and creating meaningful relationships. By sharing stories, traditions, and life lessons, founders can leave a legacy that endures beyond their possessions.


Importance Of Relationships And Memories

Memories are the fabric of our lives. Founders must invest time in nurturing relationships with their families, creating memories that will be cherished long after they are gone. Simple joys such as family vacations, holiday traditions, and everyday moments hold immense value and contribute to a rich, fulfilling life.


Being A Good Parent

For many founders, the journey began with immense sacrifice, often working long hours and enduring hardships to provide for their families. Now that success has been achieved, it’s time to shift priorities and focus on being present and supportive parents. Demonstrating love, providing guidance, and spending quality time with children is crucial in fostering strong family bonds and ensuring a lasting legacy.


Pursuing Family Harmony

Harmony within the family is essential for both legacy-building and creating positive memories. Open communication, shared goals, and mutual support create a nurturing environment where family members thrive. Business founders must prioritize family harmony to ensure their legacy is one of love, respect, and unity.


Balancing Business And Family Life

Balancing the demands of running a business with family life requires intentionality and mindfulness. Here are some tips for achieving this balance:


  • Prioritise Time: Allocate time for family activities and personal relaxation alongside business responsibilities.

  • Reflect and Adjust: Regularly assess your actions and ensure they align with your values and goals.

  • Be Present: Fully engage in moments with family, enhancing the quality of relationships and memories.


Building a legacy, creating memories, being a good parent, and pursuing family harmony are intertwined pursuits that define our lives. Founders and leaders must recognize the temporary nature of material wealth and shift their focus towards nurturing relationships and imparting lasting values.


By living with purpose, cherishing family moments, and fostering harmony, founders can craft a legacy that endures and enriches the lives of their descendants. In the end, it is the love we share, the values we uphold, and the moments we cherish that truly define the richness of our lives.

About the Author - Enrique M. Soriano is a Senior Advisor for the Wong Advisory Group and this article has been republished with his permission. Find out more by visiting their website here


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